Anam Cara Tools

Inspired by the Celtic idea of “soul friendship,” these tools are designed to support reflection, ritual, and personal meaning-making. These offerings are creative companions you can use in your own time, in your own way.

Currently we offer a ‘Letters to the Dead’ Guide for Ritual and Meaning-Making.

The Guide

Guide cover titled "Letters to the Dead Ritual Guide" with an illustration of a black crow.

Write to those who can no longer answer - loved ones, ancestors, even past versions of yourself. This 7-page fillable PDF offers a quiet space for remembrance, release, and connection. Each letter becomes an offering, whether you choose to burn it, bury it, or keep it close.

Please note the following:

1. If at any point grief feels too heavy, please consider speaking with a licensed therapist or crisis line.

2. These offerings are tools for reflection and ritual - not therapy, not treatment.

Meditations coming soon!

✺ Frequently asked questions ✺

  • A: Not at all. These are stand-alone resources open to anyone who feels drawn to them.

  • A: No. These are not therapy services and are not eligible for insurance reimbursement. They are separate from counseling offerings.

  • A: Grief is a deeply personal experience. If you feel your grief is overwhelming your daily life or safety, I encourage you to seek therapy with a licensed provider. These tools are meant as companions for reflection, not substitutes for counseling.

  • A: Once purchased, you’ll receive access to “The Vault” - a paywalled section of the site that holds direct access to the recordings. They’re yours to use whenever you need a moment of reflection until your subscription ends.

  • A: They are inspired by universal human experiences of reflection and ritual. Some draw from Celtic concepts like Anam Cara (“soul friend”), but they are open to all backgrounds and beliefs.

  • A: Each guide includes digital, fillable ritual stationery (PDF templates), a simple guide for use, and space for your own creative expression. It’s designed as a personal ritual tool — how you use it is entirely your choice.

  • A: No. These are private rituals for your personal reflection. I don’t review or collect letters; they belong solely to you.

  • A: You’ll find a mix. Some are designed for quiet reflection and grounding, while others take a more lighthearted or irreverent approach. Both styles are meant to spark perspective and presence - you get to choose what fits your mood in the moment.