Anam Cara Tools

Inspired by the Celtic idea of “soul friendship,” these tools are designed to support reflection, ritual, and personal meaning-making. These offerings are creative companions you can use in your own time, in your own way.

Currently we offer a ‘Letters to the Dead’ Guide for Ritual and Meaning-Making.

The Guide

Guide cover titled "Letters to the Dead Ritual Guide" with an illustration of a black crow.

Write to those who can no longer answer - loved ones, ancestors, even past versions of yourself. This 7-page fillable PDF offers a quiet space for remembrance, release, and connection. Each letter becomes an offering, whether you choose to burn it, bury it, or keep it close.

Access the Letters to the Dead Guide

Please note the following:

1. If at any point grief feels too heavy, please consider speaking with a licensed therapist or crisis line.

2. These offerings are tools for reflection and ritual - not therapy, not treatment.

Meditations coming soon!

✺ Frequently asked questions ✺

  • A: Not at all. These are stand-alone resources open to anyone who feels drawn to them.

  • A: No. These are not therapy services and are not eligible for insurance reimbursement. They are separate from counseling offerings.

  • A: Grief is a deeply personal experience. If you feel your grief is overwhelming your daily life or safety, I encourage you to seek therapy with a licensed provider. These tools are meant as companions for reflection, not substitutes for counseling.

  • A: Once purchased, you’ll receive access to “The Vault” - a paywalled section of the site that holds direct access to the recordings. They’re yours to use whenever you need a moment of reflection until your subscription ends.

  • A: They are inspired by universal human experiences of reflection and ritual. Some draw from Celtic concepts like Anam Cara (“soul friend”), but they are open to all backgrounds and beliefs.

  • A: Each guide includes digital, fillable ritual stationery (PDF templates), a simple guide for use, and space for your own creative expression. It’s designed as a personal ritual tool — how you use it is entirely your choice.

  • A: No. These are private rituals for your personal reflection. I don’t review or collect letters; they belong solely to you.

  • A: You’ll find a mix. Some are designed for quiet reflection and grounding, while others take a more lighthearted or irreverent approach. Both styles are meant to spark perspective and presence - you get to choose what fits your mood in the moment.